Daughters and Sons

Editors’ Note: Patients are part of family systems, and understanding these systems can help psychiatrists advance treatment. That’s why we’re launching a new column we are calling Families in Psychiatry. In this column, Dr. Alison M. Heru will examine issues faced by psychiatrists who are involved in family therapy and psychoeducation. She will also look at family research and at the impact that caring for patients with mental illness has on caregivers. Often, she will also offer a global perspective on these issues. If you have an idea for Dr. Heru, e-mail her at cpnews@elsevier.com.

At age 7, Maggie Jarry watched her mother "walk around the apartment trying to catch her eyes because she believed they had floated out of her face." Her mother often locked herself in the bathroom and talked to herself in the mirror because she believed that had telepathic powers.

"We lived like this for a year, until a babysitter and her mother figured out what was going on" and got professional help for Maggie’s mother. Her mother was diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder, and after she died in 2007, Maggie Jarry felt free to share her experience (Psychiatr. Serv. 2009;60:1587-8). "During these years, no one asked me about my experiences of living with my mom while she was ill. I was expected to just go play and be a child while she was in the hospital," Maggie wrote.

Maggie, now a community organizer, is part of a new consumer organization that seeks to provide support and resources to those who have a parent with mental illness. In the organization’s blog, called "Daughters and Sons," one writer expressed the burden of children living with parents with mental illness this way:

"People can be told that your family member is ‘sick’ but until they have concrete examples of how a day becomes an eternity as a child sits unknowingly, waiting for a storm to pass that has no time limit, they really have no idea what it is like. Until people ‘get it,’ they won’t be inclined to help change it and deal with it on a societal level. Unlike the adults who can get away from dysfunction, the child growing up in a crooked house has no escape."

In Maggie’s case, when her mother was doing well, the two had a good relationship. The bond that existed between the two underscores the essential human role that parenting can have in helping patients with mental illness reach wellness.

Many resources are available for children of parents with mental illness, although there are more in Europe, Australia, and New Zealand than in the United States. In the Netherlands, an online group course for Parents With Mental Illness has been piloted, and in Finland, clinician training has been studied. In the United States, the National Research Council and the Institute of Medicine produced a report on Depression in Parents, Parenting and Children: Opportunities to Improve Identification, Treatment, and Prevention. In addition, excellent web resources are listed at end of the column.

What can individual adult psychiatrists do? We can include children in family meetings about the parent’s illness. We can answer their questions about psychiatric illness. Children can also provide great insight into family functioning – strengths and weaknesses. We can provide age-appropriate literature when they visit the hospital or come with their parent to our office. We can ask our patients, their spouses, and other caregiving adults about their children. We can ask if they need help with parenting, and provide appropriate resources. We can reassure our patients that we want to help them become better parents, not remove their children! Families can be referred for help and support. If you see your patient as being part of a family, then you have a family or systems perspective of health care.

There are many family psychiatrists and many of us are members of the Association of Family Psychiatrists, which is an organization allied with the American Psychiatric Association. We have a website and a newsletter. Family psychiatrists are found in diverse settings, such as child and adolescent inpatient units, geriatric clinics, and psychosomatic medicine services. Those of us in outpatient practice may use family therapy as a single modality. Most of us, however, incorporate a family approach in our care of the patient. We use medication, individual therapy, and family interventions.

Several international family psychiatry resources are available online. Among them are the "Mental Health and Growing Up" leaflets, the "Children of Parents With a Mental Illness" website, and the Effective Family Programme.

I look forward to bringing you updates on family psychiatry, the latest in evidence-based family interventions, and other information aimed at helping you keep an updated family systems approach in your practice. Let me hear from you.

Editors’ Note: Patients are part of family systems, and understanding these systems can help psychiatrists advance treatment. That’s why we’re launching a new column we are calling Families in Psychiatry. In this column, Dr. Alison M. Heru will examine issues faced by psychiatrists who are involved in family therapy and psychoeducation. She will also look at family research and at the impact that caring for patients with mental illness has on caregivers. Often, she will also offer a global perspective on these issues. If you have an idea for Dr. Heru, e-mail her at cpnews@elsevier.com.

At age 7, Maggie Jarry watched her mother "walk around the apartment trying to catch her eyes because she believed they had floated out of her face." Her mother often locked herself in the bathroom and talked to herself in the mirror because she believed that had telepathic powers.

"We lived like this for a year, until a babysitter and her mother figured out what was going on" and got professional help for Maggie’s mother. Her mother was diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder, and after she died in 2007, Maggie Jarry felt free to share her experience (Psychiatr. Serv. 2009;60:1587-8). "During these years, no one asked me about my experiences of living with my mom while she was ill. I was expected to just go play and be a child while she was in the hospital," Maggie wrote.

Maggie, now a community organizer, is part of a new consumer organization that seeks to provide support and resources to those who have a parent with mental illness. In the organization’s blog, called "Daughters and Sons," one writer expressed the burden of children living with parents with mental illness this way:

"People can be told that your family member is ‘sick’ but until they have concrete examples of how a day becomes an eternity as a child sits unknowingly, waiting for a storm to pass that has no time limit, they really have no idea what it is like. Until people ‘get it,’ they won’t be inclined to help change it and deal with it on a societal level. Unlike the adults who can get away from dysfunction, the child growing up in a crooked house has no escape."

In Maggie’s case, when her mother was doing well, the two had a good relationship. The bond that existed between the two underscores the essential human role that parenting can have in helping patients with mental illness reach wellness.

Many resources are available for children of parents with mental illness, although there are more in Europe, Australia, and New Zealand than in the United States. In the Netherlands, an online group course for Parents With Mental Illness has been piloted, and in Finland, clinician training has been studied. In the United States, the National Research Council and the Institute of Medicine produced a report on Depression in Parents, Parenting and Children: Opportunities to Improve Identification, Treatment, and Prevention. In addition, excellent web resources are listed at end of the column.

What can individual adult psychiatrists do? We can include children in family meetings about the parent’s illness. We can answer their questions about psychiatric illness. Children can also provide great insight into family functioning – strengths and weaknesses. We can provide age-appropriate literature when they visit the hospital or come with their parent to our office. We can ask our patients, their spouses, and other caregiving adults about their children. We can ask if they need help with parenting, and provide appropriate resources. We can reassure our patients that we want to help them become better parents, not remove their children! Families can be referred for help and support. If you see your patient as being part of a family, then you have a family or systems perspective of health care.

There are many family psychiatrists and many of us are members of the Association of Family Psychiatrists, which is an organization allied with the American Psychiatric Association. We have a website and a newsletter. Family psychiatrists are found in diverse settings, such as child and adolescent inpatient units, geriatric clinics, and psychosomatic medicine services. Those of us in outpatient practice may use family therapy as a single modality. Most of us, however, incorporate a family approach in our care of the patient. We use medication, individual therapy, and family interventions.

Several international family psychiatry resources are available online. Among them are the "Mental Health and Growing Up" leaflets, the "Children of Parents With a Mental Illness" website, and the Effective Family Programme.

I look forward to bringing you updates on family psychiatry, the latest in evidence-based family interventions, and other information aimed at helping you keep an updated family systems approach in your practice. Let me hear from you.

Editors’ Note: Patients are part of family systems, and understanding these systems can help psychiatrists advance treatment. That’s why we’re launching a new column we are calling Families in Psychiatry. In this column, Dr. Alison M. Heru will examine issues faced by psychiatrists who are involved in family therapy and psychoeducation. She will also look at family research and at the impact that caring for patients with mental illness has on caregivers. Often, she will also offer a global perspective on these issues. If you have an idea for Dr. Heru, e-mail her at cpnews@elsevier.com.

At age 7, Maggie Jarry watched her mother "walk around the apartment trying to catch her eyes because she believed they had floated out of her face." Her mother often locked herself in the bathroom and talked to herself in the mirror because she believed that had telepathic powers.

"We lived like this for a year, until a babysitter and her mother figured out what was going on" and got professional help for Maggie’s mother. Her mother was diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder, and after she died in 2007, Maggie Jarry felt free to share her experience (Psychiatr. Serv. 2009;60:1587-8). "During these years, no one asked me about my experiences of living with my mom while she was ill. I was expected to just go play and be a child while she was in the hospital," Maggie wrote.

Maggie, now a community organizer, is part of a new consumer organization that seeks to provide support and resources to those who have a parent with mental illness. In the organization’s blog, called "Daughters and Sons," one writer expressed the burden of children living with parents with mental illness this way:

"People can be told that your family member is ‘sick’ but until they have concrete examples of how a day becomes an eternity as a child sits unknowingly, waiting for a storm to pass that has no time limit, they really have no idea what it is like. Until people ‘get it,’ they won’t be inclined to help change it and deal with it on a societal level. Unlike the adults who can get away from dysfunction, the child growing up in a crooked house has no escape."

In Maggie’s case, when her mother was doing well, the two had a good relationship. The bond that existed between the two underscores the essential human role that parenting can have in helping patients with mental illness reach wellness.

Many resources are available for children of parents with mental illness, although there are more in Europe, Australia, and New Zealand than in the United States. In the Netherlands, an online group course for Parents With Mental Illness has been piloted, and in Finland, clinician training has been studied. In the United States, the National Research Council and the Institute of Medicine produced a report on Depression in Parents, Parenting and Children: Opportunities to Improve Identification, Treatment, and Prevention. In addition, excellent web resources are listed at end of the column.

What can individual adult psychiatrists do? We can include children in family meetings about the parent’s illness. We can answer their questions about psychiatric illness. Children can also provide great insight into family functioning – strengths and weaknesses. We can provide age-appropriate literature when they visit the hospital or come with their parent to our office. We can ask our patients, their spouses, and other caregiving adults about their children. We can ask if they need help with parenting, and provide appropriate resources. We can reassure our patients that we want to help them become better parents, not remove their children! Families can be referred for help and support. If you see your patient as being part of a family, then you have a family or systems perspective of health care.

There are many family psychiatrists and many of us are members of the Association of Family Psychiatrists, which is an organization allied with the American Psychiatric Association. We have a website and a newsletter. Family psychiatrists are found in diverse settings, such as child and adolescent inpatient units, geriatric clinics, and psychosomatic medicine services. Those of us in outpatient practice may use family therapy as a single modality. Most of us, however, incorporate a family approach in our care of the patient. We use medication, individual therapy, and family interventions.

Several international family psychiatry resources are available online. Among them are the "Mental Health and Growing Up" leaflets, the "Children of Parents With a Mental Illness" website, and the Effective Family Programme.

I look forward to bringing you updates on family psychiatry, the latest in evidence-based family interventions, and other information aimed at helping you keep an updated family systems approach in your practice. Let me hear from you.