Although this guideline focuses on menstrual management and the guidance for you to help teens with disabilities through the pubertal transition, it’s very important to put this topic also into the context of sexuality. I think you have a great opportunity to do this because, often, you already have developed long-term relationships with these teenagers and their families, so the trust is already there. You should be the one to ensure all patients have appropriate sex education and help families with this.
For some of these teens who are cognitively impaired, the initial conversations about sex may focus more on safety and abuse prevention. For example, which parts of their body should not be touched by other people. You can help the families really be the educators. Parents can be the ones to teach their kids how to protect themselves by rehearsing the answers to questions like, “What do you do if someone touches you? Who do you tell? Where do you go? What if it happens at school?” As part of the safety aspects, you also can help families assess whether the patient will be able to have a consensual sexual relationship. It’s the teens who have mild cognitive impairment that I worry about most, because often they are friendly and open to people, and can be taken advantage of. You just want to make sure they have the right information at their appropriate level.
Adolescents with physical disabilities are going to be just as interested in sex as any other teens and should be helped with any potential issues that they may have around that issue. They will likely get sex education in schools, but are still often viewed as not interested in sex or sexually active, and they may not get the usual confidential teen questions or appropriate screenings. Menstrual management and sexuality education both are important aspects of reproductive health care for teens with disabilities.
Dr. Elisabeth Quint, lead author of the AAP clinical report “Menstrual Management for Adolescents,” is a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at the University of Michigan, Ann Arbor. She is also a past president of the North American Society for Pediatric and Adolescent Gynecology.