“Go outside and play!”
How often have you said that to your kids (or grandkids)? For that matter, how often did you hear it when you were a kid?
A lot, if memory serves me correctly. Some of it was just my mom wanting me out of the house, some of it an innate realization on her part that too much time spent planted in front of the TV was bad for you. (When I was a kid, Brady Bunch reruns kicked off my summer day at 8:00 a.m.).
Dr. Allan M. Block
The idea that too much time in front of a screen can be bad is nothing new. Regrettably, some of this ancient wisdom has been lost in the eons since I was a kid.
Does this surprise you?
Humans, like all primates, are a social species. We’ve benefited from the combined power of our minds to leave caves, harness nature, and build civilizations. But this has a cost, and perhaps the social media screen has been a tipping point for mental health.
I’m not knocking the basic idea. Share a joke with a friend, see pictures of the new baby, hear out about a new job. That’s fine. The trouble is that it’s gone beyond that. A lot of it is perfectly innocuous ... but a lot isn’t.
As it’s evolved, social media has also become the home of anger. Political and otherwise. It’s so much easier to post memes making fun of other people and their viewpoints than to speak to them in person. Trolls and bots lurk everywhere to get you riled up – things you wouldn’t be encountering if you were talking to your neighbor at the fence or a friend on the phone.
Recent trends on TikTok included students bragging about things they’d stolen from their high schools and people boasting of having “ripped off” Six Flags amusement parks with an annual membership loophole (the latter resulted in park management canceling the plan). How do such things benefit anyone (beyond those posting them getting clicks)?
I’m pretty sure they do nothing to make you feel good, or happy, or positive in any way. And that’s not even counting the political nastiness, cheap shots, and conspiracy theories that drown out rational thought.
Unfortunately, social media in today’s forms is addictive. Seeing one good thing from a friend gives you a dopamine boost, and this drives you to overlook all the bad things the screen does. Like the meth addict who lives for the high, and ignores all the negative aspects – loss of money, family, a home, teeth – that it brings.
So it’s not a surprise that walking away from it for a week made people happier and gave them time to do things that were more important than staring at a screen. Though I do wonder how many of the subjects ended up going back to it, forgetting about the benefits they’d just experienced.
When Frank Zappa released “I’m the Slime” in 1973, it was about television. But today the song is far closer to describing what social media has become than he could have ever imagined. (He died in 1993, never knowing how accurate he’d become).
We encourage our patients to exercise. The benefits of doing so are beyond question. But maybe it’s time to point out not only the good things that come from exercise, but also those that come from turning off the screen in order to do so.
As my mother said: “Go outside and play!”
It’s good for the body and sanity, and both are important.
Dr. Block has a solo neurology practice in Scottsdale, Ariz.