While there may be some lactation consultants who disagree, in my experience counseling women attempting to breastfeed is more art than science. Well before the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) began to offer mini courses on breastfeeding for practitioners I was left to help new mothers based on watching my wife nurse our three children and what scraps of common sense I could sweep up off the floor.
Using my own benchmarks of success I would say I did a decent job with dyads who sought my help. I began by accepting that even under optimal conditions, not every woman and/or child can successfully breastfeed. None of the infants died or was hospitalized with dehydration. A few may have required some additional phototherapy, but they all completed infancy in good shape. On the maternal side I am sure there were a few mothers who had lingering feelings of inadequacy because they had “failed” at breastfeeding. But, for the most part, I think I succeeded in helping new mothers remain as mentally healthy as they could be given the rigors of motherhood. At least I gave it my best shot.
Dr. William G. Wilkoff
If I had a strategy, it was a focus on maintaining a routine (schedule can have an ugly aura about it) that allowed mothers to achieve spells of restorative rest. Helping mothers with the difficult task of deciding whether their infant was hungry, or tired, or uncomfortable was always a struggle, but well worth the effort when we succeeded. Finally, I tried to help mothers step back off the ledge and look at the bigger picture — breastfeeding was not the only way to feed their baby while we were working to overcome the bumps in the road.
Where I failed was in my inability to effectively counsel when it came to the mysteries of the latch. In large part it was because I was a man and helping the dyad succeed at latching on to the breast can require a hands-on approach with which I felt a bit uncomfortable. I could certainly test a baby’s suck and oral architecture with my pinky but otherwise I had to rely on women to help if latching was a problem. I think even trained lactation consultants have difficulty with this mysterious process, which is completely hidden from view inside the baby’s mouth.
Fortunately for me and the dyads I was working with, we rarely considered ankyloglossia as a problem. My training had been that tongue-tie seldom, if ever, contributed to speech problems and even less commonly hindered latch. I think I recall snipping a couple of lingual frenulums early in my career in a bloodless and seemingly painless procedure. But, for the life of me I can’t recall the motivation. It may have been that the ankyloglossia was so obvious that I couldn’t convince the parents it would resolve or it was at the request of a lactation consultant.
But, obviously after I stopped seeing newborns a decade and a half ago the lingual frenulum became a target of surgical assault with, at times, unfortunate results that made breastfeeding painful and more difficult. It’s hard for me to imagine why anyone would consider using a laser for such a simple procedure. But, then I haven’t invested in a laser that allowed me to charge $800 for the procedure. I doubt I even charged for it. It wouldn’t have been worth the time and effort to look up the code. But, then, technology and money can be powerful motivators.
The good news is the AAP has been watching and recently issued a clinical report in which they state what many of us have known from personal observation — They further note that “the symptoms of ankyloglossia overlap those of other breastfeeding difficulties.”
So there you have it. Another fad has been squashed and we’ve come full circle. The latch still remains mystery hidden from view. I think we have to suspect that there exists a small number of dyads in which tongue-tie creates a problem with nursing. And, there may be some safe imaging technique coming along that gives us a glimpse of what happens in the dark recesses of a nursing baby’s mouth. Until then we must rely on masters of the art of lactation consulting, the “Latch Whisperers.”
Dr. Wilkoff practiced primary care pediatrics in Brunswick, Maine, for nearly 40 years. He has authored several books on behavioral pediatrics, including “How to Say No to Your Toddler.” Other than a Littman stethoscope he accepted as a first-year medical student in 1966, Dr. Wilkoff reports having nothing to disclose. Email him at pdnews@mdedge.com.