An app designed to help single female MDs
Ifie Williams, MD, a psychiatrist in Washington, D.C., believes a wider dating pool is key – provided everyone understands the situation up front. When Dr. Williams started residency in 2014, she was “as single as can be.” She tried many dating apps, but they were extremely time consuming. Even when she set specific preferences, she found herself sifting through “matches” that didn’t fit her criteria.
“Dating nowadays has become almost like a second job,” said Dr. Williams. “Just the amount of time that people are having to spend on apps, swiping left and right and then meeting people. You think they’re interested and then you deal with all these games.”
By 2017, Dr. Williams had invented Miss Doctor, a dating app that would connect female physicians and other doctoral-level professionals with men or women on a similar achievement level.
By definition, these people would not be intimidated by ambitious, busy women. They would be heavily screened and vetted. And one other proviso: they would have to pay for “likes.”
Most dating apps charge a subscription fee. Users are allowed to “like” numerous profiles and perhaps not bother responding to many matches. By contrast, Miss Doctor accounts are free and include a limited number of “likes” to indicate interest. Beyond that, there’s a price.
“We wanted to find a way to make people a little more intentional with how they like people on the app, so they give a little more thought to it,” Dr. Williams said. “So, we monetize it and use that to change behavior.”
After an initial launch in 2017, the app had to take a back seat while Dr. Williams started her psychiatry practice and got married herself. She plans to relaunch it in spring 2023.
Male or female, there is general agreement that finding time to date as a young physician isn’t easy. While DownToDate has had “doctor meets doctor” success stories, many users are still searching for “the one.”
Dr. Boyer believes that career challenges are not a reason to give up. “There are so many single and available people out there,” she said. “And everyone’s deserving of love. Even if you only have an hour a week.”
A version of this article first appeared on Medscape.com.